Truth and Trust

I believe that the truth is one of the most important ingredients to a relationship or Friendship...
if this person loves you or is your friend....they deserve the truth
give them all of it
.....But I’ve encountered problems with this total honesty.
Not mad response or losses because of the truth...

(Which may be inevitable)
but more of them NOT believing the truth you have given them.
if I give nothing but the truth....don’t I deserve your trust as you deserve the truth? Why is it up to you what the truth is?
why is you who tells me if I am telling you the truth?
why is it I don’t receive all your trust?
Its funny how it works...all you have do is call someone a liar to make what YOU believe the truth to be, actual truth.