Sympathetic Heart

i have recently come upon a revalation...not of any phenominal grandchuer...just a revelation of sympathy a sympathetic heart you tell me your problem...your situation and i always had something to say some sort of answer or opinion ........i heard everything you said, even evaluated it..... but did i just listen did i give time to you without taking some for me? was i trying to prove something to you...or me? sometimes the best answer isnt my so called advice, but just the time i give with a sympathetic heart